Encourage, praise!
There is nothing more that diminishes a person wish to serve you well than critism and disdain.
"I have yet t ofind the man,however great or exalted his position, who did not do better work and put forth greater effort under a spirit of approval than he would ever do under a spirit of criticism"
Harry Schwab-- who was paid a million dollars a year in the 1930's!
Wednesday, June 24, 2009
Tuesday, June 23, 2009
How to make someone feel important
The deepest urge in human nature is the 'desire to be important'. If you make people feel valuable and important in your company- they will feel you are important and valuable as well.
Monday, June 22, 2009
Sunday, June 21, 2009
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"If you want to gather honey- don't kick over the beehive"
That is it.
Basically- do not critize whatever or whoever you are trying to get a point of influence from. It puts people on the defensive and make them strive to justify themselves.
Critism is dangerous it wounds pride, hurt peoples sense of importance and aroused resentment.
Do not kick the beehive!
That is it.
Basically- do not critize whatever or whoever you are trying to get a point of influence from. It puts people on the defensive and make them strive to justify themselves.
Critism is dangerous it wounds pride, hurt peoples sense of importance and aroused resentment.
Do not kick the beehive!
Friday, January 2, 2009
Monopoly and life
After playing this game for the past two weeks a few notices of interest.
Life is like monopoly- 1) depends on the roll of the dice if you land in jail or on Boardwalk...
2) You need to be creative and mortage when time gets tough
3) It depends on a roll of the dice if you land on free parking and win the 'loot-ery'
4)You can be the winner one time and the loser the next game
5) You get cocky when you are the big time winner in Monopoly
6) Do not let winning at Monopoly go to your head ( it will-- trust me)
7) Do not take losing at Monopoly too serious- there is always another game
8) Live life as if it were Monopoly- when we lose at Monopoly we know we can try again to win
So- if and when things get tough- it really in the end does not matter so much just pay attention to how you feel- and how to are treating others- remember this too will pass!
Life is like monopoly- 1) depends on the roll of the dice if you land in jail or on Boardwalk...
2) You need to be creative and mortage when time gets tough
3) It depends on a roll of the dice if you land on free parking and win the 'loot-ery'
4)You can be the winner one time and the loser the next game
5) You get cocky when you are the big time winner in Monopoly
6) Do not let winning at Monopoly go to your head ( it will-- trust me)
7) Do not take losing at Monopoly too serious- there is always another game
8) Live life as if it were Monopoly- when we lose at Monopoly we know we can try again to win
So- if and when things get tough- it really in the end does not matter so much just pay attention to how you feel- and how to are treating others- remember this too will pass!
Thursday, September 11, 2008
HIgh heels
I am a true believer in heels for women!
They put you on a pedestal which is where you belong.
Select the highest and most expensive pair you can wear for a function---
and learn how to walk in them first!
"You have to spend money to make money" Invest in good shoes and wait for the cocktail and dinner invites to pour in!
They put you on a pedestal which is where you belong.
Select the highest and most expensive pair you can wear for a function---
and learn how to walk in them first!
"You have to spend money to make money" Invest in good shoes and wait for the cocktail and dinner invites to pour in!
Wednesday, September 10, 2008
Shoes
The higher the better! The more expensive the better- yes ladies quality truly does count here. "One shoe can change your life" quote from Cinderella!
"Is is impossible to be well dressed in cheap shoes" Sir Hardy Amies
"Is is impossible to be well dressed in cheap shoes" Sir Hardy Amies
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