Perfume Phase One

When getting dressed remember to spray or dab you perfume on your bare skin while you are applying your make-up- any where you think you may get kissed later is a good start!

Act as if you were.....

Act as if you had.....
fill in the blanks for yourself- Stop living for tomorrow or in days gone past.
Imagine you have whatever it is you desire- one of the secrets from "The Secret'.
Your thoughts can change your life- believe you have, are whatever it is you desire and at the very least you can enjoy your life in the believe realm.
I have done this for years- it has saved me so much money in new vehicles- I have a Mercedes, a Lexus, Ferrari-= (all in my mind) but I have had so much fun driving the various cars every day!
Treat yourself and respect yourself as though you had all you want or need.
(The added specialness in this is you find yourself not wanting, not judging and you are not jealous of anyone else- 'cause you have everything you want!)

Say no to gossip!

I know how much women talk about each other- and it seems to very hurtful and of no good ends. I understand how sometimes women like to talk about- most often the women they truly and privately envy- but really not nice!
We have all had at some time or other heard some hurtful gossip about ourselves- so please try not to lower yourself to white trailer trash and gossip about another woman!
Truly- most of the time women only do chat about someone, richer, taller, thinner, more successful then themselves (so in a way you are actually complementing the women you talk about as they are important enough for you to waste your valuable time degrading- we generally do not waste our time with folks that 'well just do not measure up to us!)
so- say no to gossip!

Do something naughty!

Nothing illegal- or mean spirited but something slightly naughty!
Go out in a dress and old fashioned stockings- sans underwear!
Steal a flower from your neighbours flower bed- heck go garden raiding after midnight! (Carefully)
Smoke a cigar and have some scotch-- in an evening gown!
Flirt with the waiter---
something spontaneous- fun and exciting!

Apologize - and mean it!

Sometimes we all make a blunder, faux pas, mistake--- or simply are snitty!
Gosh, darn and OMG--- well- buck up princess and apologize--- and mean it!
Simply by saying "I am sorry"---- makes you the Princess you are meant to be!

Only the best~!

Choose something in your life that you will only allow the best---for most of us that is something small (due to money). Pick the best bubble bath, the best towels, sheets, maybe shoes if you can afford it....
"I vow from this day forward I will settle for only the best of _____________"
For me that is chocolate!
Only the best will do---- however I will keep sampling- just in case the best is better then what I have had.

details- it is all in the details

Focus on the shoes-- remember to NEVER have heels that do not have the rubber on the heel! That sound is disgusting- also make sure the shoes are polished- sounds silly--But, you know as well as I do how many times you have seen women with unpolished shoes and that clicking noise!
Diana Vreeland went so far as to have her 'staff' polish the underside of her soles so the wear would not show- now that is classy!
Keep one of those self polish foams in your vehicle- take your shoes to the shoemaker and have them 'freshen' up your favorite pair- and wear them with jeans-- nice and polished always!