Say no to gossip!

I know how much women talk about each other- and it seems to very hurtful and of no good ends. I understand how sometimes women like to talk about- most often the women they truly and privately envy- but really not nice!
We have all had at some time or other heard some hurtful gossip about ourselves- so please try not to lower yourself to white trailer trash and gossip about another woman!
Truly- most of the time women only do chat about someone, richer, taller, thinner, more successful then themselves (so in a way you are actually complementing the women you talk about as they are important enough for you to waste your valuable time degrading- we generally do not waste our time with folks that 'well just do not measure up to us!)
so- say no to gossip!

Do something naughty!

Nothing illegal- or mean spirited but something slightly naughty!
Go out in a dress and old fashioned stockings- sans underwear!
Steal a flower from your neighbours flower bed- heck go garden raiding after midnight! (Carefully)
Smoke a cigar and have some scotch-- in an evening gown!
Flirt with the waiter---
something spontaneous- fun and exciting!

Apologize - and mean it!

Sometimes we all make a blunder, faux pas, mistake--- or simply are snitty!
Gosh, darn and OMG--- well- buck up princess and apologize--- and mean it!
Simply by saying "I am sorry"---- makes you the Princess you are meant to be!

Only the best~!

Choose something in your life that you will only allow the best---for most of us that is something small (due to money). Pick the best bubble bath, the best towels, sheets, maybe shoes if you can afford it....
"I vow from this day forward I will settle for only the best of _____________"
For me that is chocolate!
Only the best will do---- however I will keep sampling- just in case the best is better then what I have had.

details- it is all in the details

Focus on the shoes-- remember to NEVER have heels that do not have the rubber on the heel! That sound is disgusting- also make sure the shoes are polished- sounds silly--But, you know as well as I do how many times you have seen women with unpolished shoes and that clicking noise!
Diana Vreeland went so far as to have her 'staff' polish the underside of her soles so the wear would not show- now that is classy!
Keep one of those self polish foams in your vehicle- take your shoes to the shoemaker and have them 'freshen' up your favorite pair- and wear them with jeans-- nice and polished always!

Coco and Jackie

Often in todays' world the fine art of simple manners seem to be forgotten- it is rather easy to remind one self that there are many women to emulate.
Coco, Jackie Kennedy, Auntie Mame ( from the movie of the same name) find your own idol and ask yourself what would she do in this situation...... for the younger set try not to choose any woman with the last name Hilton, Lohan or Spears!

Name your personal mansion

Fancy English houses have names-- as most famous houses have names so should yours.Every 'princess' deserves to live in a grande home- perhaps it sounds pretentious- but what the heck the 'princesses' in your life will understand.Chateau "insert yourname'"insert your name" Maison....Century Farm..... The Pillow Palace.... find something that suits your mansion and you!